8 Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship

We all have been in relationships at one point in time. We all have been in love and have got hurt. We have all had our share of breakups and fights. When we are in a relationship, we don’t realize how and when we change. Sometimes the change is good, and sometimes it’s not. While being in a relationship, we don’t understand how and when we changed. It’s either the family or friends who observe the change.

These are 8 signs that say you’re in a toxic relationship

1. Emotional Dependence

You cannot stop yourself from thinking about them
You are constantly checking your phone for their call/text
Your partner has become your priority
Everything you do it involves your partner in it
You think it’s your partner’s job to make you happy all the time

2. Blind Eye To An Alarming Signal

You choose to ignore your partner’s action which you disapprove off
You snooze off your gut feeling
You are always justifying your partner’s wrong behavior to yourself and others
You choose to be quiet even when your partner misbehaving
When you start feeling, your partner’s behavior is justified because they love you

3. You Can’t Say ‘NO.’

You’re always hesitating yourself to say NO
You’re feeling scared to hurt them emotionally
You’re anxious they will leave you if you did not obey them
You feel your opinion would be straight away rejected
You prioritize their happiness over yours

4. You Blindly Trust Them

You never counter-question them
You have become your partner’s shadow
You believe everything your partner says
You cannot hear anything wrong about your partner from your friends or family anymore
You are always agreeing with your partner in whatever they say or do without having an opinion of your own

5. My Way Or The Highway

You are expected to be on their side always
You don’t have a say in anything
If things don’t go according to your partner, they get upset
Your partner forces their likes/dislikes and choices on you
You guys fight frequently if you disagree with them

6. You Always Feeling Guilty

You feel guilty taking out time for yourself
The feeling of taking permission to do anything for yourself
Constantly feels it’s your fault after the fights
Feeling guilty when your partner is not happy
You are not aware of feeling this way

7. Self-Doubt

Your partner never supports your dreams
They show zero faith in you
They are always putting you down emotionally, mentally & spiritually
You feel incompetent about yourself
Making you feel stupid about your goals and dreams

8. Insecurity

You’re always anxious
They don’t make you feel you’re special for them
You are always taken for granted
Respect feels like a luxury
In spite of being in a relationship, you still feel lonely